
Jamie Tucker
Positive things that have never failed to come to mind about my dad.
1.
He taught me that no matter how menial,
difficult,
or seemingly pointless a task may be,
I should always do the very best I can,
and furthermore,
I should do everything in my power
to be sure,
that my best
is better than the work of others around me.
2.
My father insisted that I strip my first motorcycle to the bare frame,
And further instructed me to completely disassemble
and rebuild the the bike’s power plant with new parts.
Specifically,
The motorcycle’s 5 hp,
four stroke,
Tecumseh
internal combustion engine.
By tearing the motorcycle down,
refurbishing,
cleaning and reassembling
each component,
(I made mistakes, and was made to remember those fundamental errors)…
I gained and have carried with me
from that day to this,
the unshakable confidence
to take on any task,
to recognize,
to take measures to avoid,
and if necessary,
find elegant solutions for,
Any challenges,
caused by mis-steps,
or oversight.
At the time,
to my adolescent Gen-x mind,
these seemed like hard lessons… I was wrong…
instead,
I have love for,
respect for,
and an un-ending gratitude for,
the incalculable impact,
The indelible impressions,
and the real world persona that have been
and continue to be
the result of these memorable lessons,
Lessons passed on to me
by my father,
the same lessons that form and support
the very foundation of my values,
My values as a person,
my values as a father
A father to my own daughters.
their success and my relationships with them
make up what I know in my heart is
The greatest achievement of my lifetime.
An achievement made possible by my own father.
I take personal responsibility for my avoidance and lack of effort
I carry the weight of knowing that I could possibly have had a meaningful relationship with my father…
as a result of my excuses,
My lack of effort,
my inability to understand a simple fact…
there is nothing to fear…
no sin is beyond redemption,
and the truth that conveys the promise…
forgiveness is for the forgiver…
I learned these lessons too late…
the result being,
My father and I missed out on so much,
So much invaluable learning,
and real knowledge of,
and from,
each other.
~Jamie Tucker